Are you finding that the guys you like suddenly aren’t interested in you, and you have no idea why?
You may be wearing “Man Repellent” and you don’t even realize it! (See my full Video on this and Blog post for more details tips on this)
As a well-seasoned women’s Dating Coach I find that so many of my female clients wear this invisible Man Repellent, and the most repelling form that it comes in is when a woman projects an underlying current of negative, cynical energy.
Take a look at where this energy is coming from in your life: Have you had a string of bad dates recently? Are you letting your past experiences with guys bring you down, or generalize and write off all guys as either dumb, boring, players, or jerks?
Or is there something in another area of your life – maybe family or career – that’s spilling over and poisoning your love life?
Well ladies, the guys can only do so much. You need to look inside, find these sources of negative energy, and eliminate them!
Guys may be initially attracted to your looks, but the kind of quality man you deserve is not going to stick around if you’re taking away more of his positive energy than you’re adding. The kind of quality men I know want a woman who exudes a real POSITIVE energy and zest for life – one they can picture laughing with, taking on fun adventures, and who’s a real joy to treat well.
Do you want just any boyfriend, or do you want an amazing, REAL man who’s going to make a damn-good husband??
Projecting negative energy, you might get a guy, but good luck keeping him if he knows his worth!
You’re absolutely right! The law of attraction implies that “like attracts like”. If you’re continually projecting negative energy, then it could potentially impact your relationships, both personal and professional. A healthy, long-term relationship often requires mutual respect, understanding, and positivity.
A man who recognizes his value would likely seek a partner who shares positivity and support, fostering growth and mutual enrichment. Therefore, if one is constantly negative, it could be difficult to sustain a relationship with such a person. It’s always crucial to work on self-improvement and personal growth, strive for positivity, and respect your partner’s value to build and maintain a healthy relationship.
By radiating negativity, you may initially attract a man, but retaining his interest could prove challenging, especially if he’s aware of his self-worth! Most likely he’ll likely be a shallow guy who doesn’t care if you’re happy, who’ll sit around and be no fun (or worse!), and you’ll be selling yourself way short with any relationship that might develop. I hope you believe in yourself, because any woman can learn to project the kind of fun feminine energy that attracts – and keeps – a quality man.
So ladies, flirt and be fun, and most importantly, have fun, and be positive, whether it’s online or in person. You attract what you put out, so if you want a positive man in your life, be warm and don’t be afraid to smile around him!
Good luck ladies, and let me know how it goes!
(*I coach my clients about this in much greater depth in my Women’s Date Coaching programs(1-on-1, Skype and Group Coaching) and in my Women’s “Become a modern MAN-MAGNET” 3-Day Dating & Attraction Bootcamp, coming up in the Summer! If you want to learn more, contact me today to schedule a 1-Hour free ‘Dating Strategy Session’ over the phone so I can talk to you personally about your situation and your goals, and get you set up with the best coaching solution for you. )
~Your Partner in Dating Success, 💕
DeAnna Lorraine xoxo ❤️
Bonus: Pros & Cons of “Man Repellent”
- Self-awareness is crucial in dating and relationships: It’s important to examine your own energy and behavior to understand how they might be influencing your romantic interactions.
- Your past experiences don’t define your future: Letting past bad experiences influence your current outlook can negatively impact your dating life.
- Life issues can affect your love life: Problems in other areas of life, like family or career, can seep into your dating experiences, which means it’s important to address these problems.
- Attraction goes beyond physical looks: While initial attraction might be physical, maintaining a relationship requires more than just good looks. It requires a positive, enriching energy.
- The women the dating coach is addressing are not attracting the men they like, leading to confusion and disappointment.
- Some women may be unknowingly emitting what the coach refers to as “Man Repellent,” which is discouraging potential romantic partners.
- The most potent form of this repellent is when a woman projects a negative and cynical energy.
- The negative energy could be stemming from bad dating experiences in the past or from generalizations about men as being dumb, boring, players, or jerks.
- It’s possible that issues in other areas of life such as family or career could be influencing a woman’s energy in a negative way and harming her love life.
- The text suggests that some women might be draining more of their partner’s positive energy than they’re contributing, which could lead to the end of the relationship.
