6th Principle of Successful Dating: Be an Opportunity Magnet
This principle is one that once you fully apply, will help you gain massive results. The key is in becoming more aware of everything around you at all times – and aware of opportunities around you. Really one of the biggest differences between people who get tons of dates whenever they want and are successful in life, and those who barely get any dates or meet any new people and who experience little success in their lives, is not merely a matter of luck or fate or being born with a certain ability that others don’t have. It’s a simple thing that they all share in common – they have their eyes open, and they see opportunities.
These people see opportunities wherever they go, and because of that, they then attract more opportunities wherever they go, and they notice the opportunities when they are presented. And not only do they notice opportunities, but they act on them. They take opportunities when half the world doesn’t even notice them and the other half may see them but don’t do anything with them; they’ll just pass them by or waste them.
So is it any wonder then why these people are so successful, and the latter are not! They are opportunity magnets. And the more opportunities they see and act on, the more they naturally attract, and the more magnetic to them they become – and so the cycle continues.
YOU can easily turn yourself into an “Opportunity Magnet” as well. Anyone can; it’s not that difficult. It’s simply a new habit you can develop just like any other, of training yourself to be more aware, observant and perceptive wherever you are.
During my Date Coaching course, I help my clients gain this awareness and develop this habit, so they can spot out opportunities when they present themselves and attract more of them. Opportunities for love, money, and happiness are EVERYWHERE, but most of us are too darn busy and caught up in our own heads, or drifting off in trance and not paying attention to what’s going on around us. While we’re walking around town, driving to and from places, while we’re shopping for groceries, waiting in line, gabbing away on our cell phones… Most of us go through these routine daily activities on autopilot.
Then, we complain that there are “no good people to date” anywhere or resort to just going to singles events or finding people online, yet we don’t even notice the abundance of opportunities all around us. The grocery store; at the bank, at the gym, coffee shop, heck even in the car next to us that’s stopped at a red light.
You’ve got to get out of your bubble and notice when opportunities present themselves. Some may be in plain site, and some may be a matter of finding hidden opportunities in places or situations that you wouldn’t have guessed.
You’ll notice a difference immediately in your dating success after you begin applying this principle in your life.
To your Success!
Deanna Lorraine is a San Diego Dating Coach.